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I guess I am a little different here -- I say ask her. Rather than saying you are uncomfortable, put it in positive terms. Maybe something like: "I've noticed you've been touching me more lately and I must admit, I really like it. I'm just wondering, is it okay if I make a move on you now, or is the touching simply in friendship?"
Don't decide for her -- she may really want you. If she says it is in friendship and you aren't comfortable with it, ask her to stop. If she says she is interested in pursuing something, ask her out. Then stay away from sex for a loooonnnnggg while, to make sure there are really mutual feelings and that you aren't just the fall back guy. GOOD LUCK!
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