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Originally posted by Cynthetiq
As far as living with him, if you are going to live with him IMHO you should be moving in with him because you want to not as an escape.
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Indeed. I had this very thing happen and it puts unecessary strain on a relationship to be "forced" together. Get your affairs in order as much as possible and deal with your parents as much as possible. You won't know how much living there helps you get established until you're out on your own without that safety net. I know you're a new adult and don't want to hear shit from your folks anymore, but it's a small price to pay for what they are giving you right now. Take your time with your SO and don't move in with him until you are in a position where's it's a choice. Trust what I say on this...it only leads to strain and fear in a relationship.
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I happen to like the words "fuck", "cock", "pussy", "tits", "cunt", "twat", "shit" and even "bitch". As long as I am not using them to describe you, don't go telling me whether or not I can/should use them...that is, if you want me to continue refraining from using them to describe you. ~Prince
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