I voted "other".
Staying with your parents, and especially your controlling mother, sounds like a lose. You'll never know what you could have done if you'd stood up to her, etcetera.
Moving in with your man is iffy right out of the house. If things go badly down the line, you'll be stuck. So...
I suggest getting some female roommates to move in with. You're leaving the house for the first time, if I understand correctly, so you're going to have enough of a hard time just having non-family roommates. Don't complicate it by having non-family roommates you are also sleeping with. Have a place to come home to after staying at your guy's place over night, or in case of an argument. Call me conservative if you like, but I figure everyone needs their own space.
Move in with your man if you must, but be sure to at least have your own room, so you can get away from him when you need to. And visa versa.
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