If I could I wouldn't have dated the jerk who was my first boyfriend. He was manipulative and cruel. It damaged me mentally and physically. I am so thankful for my family standing beside me and interfering in our relationship even though I hated their guts at the time. If it hadn't been for them I wouldn't be where I am today. I was so low because of him I was depressed, slightly suicidal, anemic, and always week and tired. There was so much though that came out of that experience that has made me strong. Who knows perhaps there is such a thing as destiny and it determined for me to go through that so that I can face something harded in the future and come through it intact. I believe it wasn't for waste if I can save someone else from the same grief I had.
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"Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama
My Karma just ran over your Dogma.
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