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Originally posted by anti fishstick
i don't understand this advice. i think it's a stupid idea. why would you fake something? i don't think that's natural at all. acting in love with someone doesn't necessarily get you a ticket to 'love' in return. i put forth a LOT of efforts in my past relationships with little in return and i cared a lot. which i think shows love, or desperation :P
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Ok. I guess it depends upon if you are in a committed relationship. A little 'fakin it' to get the desired end result? I see nothing wrong with this. I love my SO and want to be in love. Besides, what is wrong with being nice? Heck, it has kept me happily married. In a relationship, there are times when they just aren't doing it for you. You start to react to this. Your reactions do not make optimal reactions from the other.
It is all about positive reinforcement. By giving that compliment, longing look, touch, wink, etc. You will receive the same from the other, more than likely. Which brings better sex, better talks and before you know it.....you ARE in love once again.
It is all in the little things.
::must . resist . the . urge . to . nag::