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Hi i am a chick and I understand where you are coming from.
I have had a best guy freind for my entire life. HE was the nicest sweetest guy I have ever met in my life.
Unfortunatly I found myself doing the same thing. I was dumped by a guy I had been dating for a while, and kinda feeling left out.
It was kinda like having a fallback guy, if no one else did, he would always care for me in some sense.
Of course when another guy came along that I liked, I dated him instead.
My best freind, who had been my best freind since I was four years old, ended up dating my best girlfreind. Which was great, I couldn't mess him up anymore.
We went through this several times, but its a horrible thing to do to each other. If shes still checking out other guys and you don't just want a one night stand then quit now, becuase thats all it will ever be to her, even though she might think otherwise sometimes.
We are all engaged to other people right now so it worked out for us, but it does put a horrible strain on your freindship.
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