Sorry, I'm not a chick, (but people used to think I was gay), my 2c:
She may be a nice girl, but I don't think she sees you as any kind of future 'boyfriend appeal'.
Maybe as some kind of big brother/friend type thing, but no more. If she does, it sounds like she wants her cake and eat it too.
Keep it as friends, but unrequited love is the worst kind of mind****, keep-you-miserable-and-forever-hanging-on kind of love.
Been there, done that. We are still friends, but really just friends. I'm not still ga-ga over her.
I have assumed that in all of this that you want something more from her than just friends and you are single? Ya?
You've got to get over her. Sooner the better.
She will not change her mind for you in the long term, and you; like I did, are putting yourself through something she has no idea about.
Its wasted on her. Move on. Find someone else. It will be a hard gut-wrenching thing to do, but it's the only way.
Sorry to a pessimist, and yup, I could be wrong, but I don't think I am.
Best of luck. It took me about 3 years........
On a brighter note, you at Victoria? Nice place down there in Windytown.
So sorry if I have spoken out of turn or invitation, but I just had to.
