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Old 05-11-2004, 03:01 AM   #1 (permalink)
Spidey
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Location: Wellington, New Zealand
Question for females

Now i am currently in a spot of bother and i hope a female member of the community can help me here.

Would you flirt with a very close friend, even though you know the other person you are flirting with has feelings for them.

And would you play footcy with them?

I'm currently in this situation and its really starting to affect the way i work. I see her 3 times a week and we've been friends for a while now. I've been very good too her (your typical nice guy) and she also knows that i have feelings for her. I've told her about this ages ago so its no secret. But anyways we would sit in the lecture theatre and her feet would come towards mine and she'd starts rubbing her feet up and down and her toes be constantly pressing up and down on mine.

Now being it this position i'm not complaining (for now) but what makes it even more complex is the fact she had broken up with her boyfriend and in the process of seeing another. So do girls do this as a thanking thing? or as some sort of i want you to stick around just incase things fall through with the new guy.

Cause quite honestly its driving me nuts. Everytime i try to get over my feelings this happens. And i have talked to her about it but she continues to do it.

Can someone enlighten me to whats going on, cause i'm really stumped. (kinda hard asking for advice seeing as i'm generally the one giving it hehe)

Thanks
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