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raeanna74 · 05-07-2004, 06:19 PM

Holo really expressed the reasons that swingers tend to shy away from single men.

Hubby and I agree that I shouldn't meet single men because of the risks. They have no special attachments or obligations that we know of. Since they have no significant other it's harder for me as a woman to judge their intentions. More or less if another woman is already attached to him that he's at least a halfway decent man in the way he treats a woman.

There is one couple that we know of where we have a suspicion that he does not treat his girl right. More or less as in a bit violent and disrespectful. I, and hubby agree, won't meet that couple because of it. Couples reflect each other and we get a better picture of their character.

A couple has invested emotional baggage into their relationship and before we meet a couple we get an idea of their commitment to each other. It's SAFE simply because we know they aren't going to get obsessed with either one of us or want to split up our relationship.

There are MANY more single men than single women out there looking to just fuck.

A swinger relationship is based on trust between the partners and there is an emotional bond that is affected each time they swing with another couple. The single male is there with only one reason - pussy - the swinger male may be there for the same reason but he is also putting effort into a relationship and swinging is a part of that. We aren't really into sex without any investment whatsoever.

05-07-2004, 06:19 PM	#7 (permalink)
raeanna74 I'm not a blonde! I'm knot! I'm knot! I'm knot! Location: Upper Michigan	Holo really expressed the reasons that swingers tend to shy away from single men. Hubby and I agree that I shouldn't meet single men because of the risks. They have no special attachments or obligations that we know of. Since they have no significant other it's harder for me as a woman to judge their intentions. More or less if another woman is already attached to him that he's at least a halfway decent man in the way he treats a woman. There is one couple that we know of where we have a suspicion that he does not treat his girl right. More or less as in a bit violent and disrespectful. I, and hubby agree, won't meet that couple because of it. Couples reflect each other and we get a better picture of their character. A couple has invested emotional baggage into their relationship and before we meet a couple we get an idea of their commitment to each other. It's SAFE simply because we know they aren't going to get obsessed with either one of us or want to split up our relationship. There are MANY more single men than single women out there looking to just fuck. A swinger relationship is based on trust between the partners and there is an emotional bond that is affected each time they swing with another couple. The single male is there with only one reason - pussy - the swinger male may be there for the same reason but he is also putting effort into a relationship and swinging is a part of that. We aren't really into sex without any investment whatsoever. __________________ "Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama My Karma just ran over your Dogma. Last edited by raeanna74; 05-07-2004 at 07:24 PM..