If you read the thread Averett posted you'll see I'm in a situation quite like yours. You can't make her lose the weight. Until she decides she absolutely doesn't want to feel heavy and unattractive anymore then she will always find an excuse to not do anything about it. Support her, get yourself in good shape and maybe your good habits will rub off on her. Go the gym, run, walk, stay active and maybe your momentum will give her the initiative to start. If that doesn't work then at least you'll have a killer bod when you're single and on the market again!
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