why can't you? Simple;
Disease.
General mistrust of strange males in sexual situations.
Women have a stranglehold on sexual decision. That will anger some females on the board but it's the honest truth. If you were a female this thread wouldn't exist.
Swingers dont' like loose cannons like yourself for reasons 1 and 2. Couples and partner swapping are deemed more safe as you have established ppl in commitments with something to lose if they're not discreet. I had the exact same problem when I went with a friend to a nudist colony. He was an "experienced" nudist, meaning he had been to several resorts before when I had no experience. They basically told me single males aren't really encouraged to come to their colony unless they had some nudist background.
The reason why, of course is the prevailing societal opinion that all stranges males=sexual predators. They were worried that I somehow wouldn't control myself at seeing all that glorious leathery 50 year old naked flesh all around me. I really didn't care one way or another but it taught me a lesson in nudist sociology.
as for reason 3, you're just gonna have to deal or find sluts. I mean "normal" women can be very sexual but most are very choosy because they can be. Combine that with less physical strength than yourself and the predator pigeonholing and your answer is clear.
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I happen to like the words "fuck", "cock", "pussy", "tits", "cunt", "twat", "shit" and even "bitch". As long as I am not using them to describe you, don't go telling me whether or not I can/should use them...that is, if you want me to continue refraining from using them to describe you. ~Prince
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