I've heard a lot about the "sex positive" movement out there. I just can't find it. :P I mean, I like to think of myself as sex-positive -- hey, who isn't? I enjoy sex, as long as I'm attracted to my partner(s). I find myself marginally attracted to men, mostly attracted to women, I keep myself well, I'm educated, I look good (used to look better but time catches us all ...), stay clean and fit and groomed. But I just don't really see IN REAL LIFE what HBO keeps reporting on ON "REAL SEX".
Like, for example, every time there's some swingers meet on some sex documentary, I'm just fascinated by it. I try to get involved in these things, because it just comes so naturally to my inherent inclinations, this idea that perhaps it would be impossible to have a mutually respectful, loving relationship WITHOUT such open sexuality. So, I want to get involved.
But I'm a single unattached male. And really, that's who I'll be for all my life. Why won't the rest of the world relent and fuck me more often?
OK maybe I'm just ranting.
I picked up a copy of (the very cheaply printed, poorly designed, crappily produced) "Ethical Slut," recommended to me by the "seduction" community (cf.
http://www.fastseduction.com -- the only place on the 'net where males like me get a fair shake, as far as I can tell). It informs me that there is a whole "counterculture" of people who know how to get laid, and who lay one another.
I live in Jackson, Mississippi. Maybe that's part of the problem?
But honestly, when I lived in Tampa or Toronto I wasn't faring any better. I just don't believe there's much "sex positive"-ness going on out there. Do you?