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Originally posted by d3f1
I am sure many people out there face this problem. I'm constantly turned down by girls not because I'm an asshole, nor that I am ugly. My looks are reasonable. Its the fact that I create a bond with someone too fast. It isn't that I purposely try to become close friends or bond with them. It just happens. It has been like this for over 2 years now, and its really starting to bother me. Girls just think that im " too good to be true". the "nice guy". I have no idea what to do. I constantly keep my chin up, and stay optimistic, is there any advice out there that someone can give ?
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Okay, Here is what I say. I'm not trying to piss any women off but this is from experience:
American women don't respect men and don't like men generally. The nicer you are the more they suspect that you are hiding something. There is a way out.
Date foreign women.
Seriously, they treat you well and don't have half the hang ups of American women. My experience is that they like and seek "nice guys". If you can, go to a club or organization that will have a bunch of europeans in it. Learn a foreign language. Get a foreign language tutor.
I've dated two german women and although they were both bitches -they initialized the contact. They made the first moves. It's like night and day compared to the overly picky chick that walks all over your heart and couldn't care less.