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Originally posted by maleficent
There are a lot of women out there, for lack of a better term, are professional victims. They aren't happy unless there's some drama going on in their life. They like the drama because it gives them attention. (I have known way too many women like this, men too actually)
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I agree, a have a friend how is not happy unless she is misserable.
I feel somewhat bad in this particular category, a friend of mine(11years and counting) has asked me a few times to date him, but for some reason I cannot. I cannot see him in this manor and it may be that's your problem as well.
To be honest I find it hard to date someone who in appearance is perfect. I gotta know that the person has his own flaws. Nothing severe, just that he does believe himself to be a "super" person. It's strange, kinda like seeing that someone is so nice and sweet, and all they want to do is be with you... and on and on.. then it feels like there's some kind of catch in there. I once dated someone who seemed like this and the catch surfaced after a month or so of dating.
Things like that are hard to explain, don't change yourself, but realize that this persona of Mr. Nice-guy or Mr. Perfect isn't exactly what all women are looking for.