You can't help someone who doesn't think they have a problem, or doesn't want the help. First step is getting her to recognize that she might have a problem. As hokey as it sounds, see if some of her other friends and family are seeing the same thing that you are, talk to her as a group, not to gang up on her, but to make her realize that there are people who are concerned about her, and think that she's got a problem. Ultimately, it's up to her.
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