I completely understand being the N"nice guy" thing and that it's a turn-off to women. I tell you what though, if you would do whatever it is that you've done to this point (which gets you turned down all the time) but with a few hundred bucks over a few dates. It's very sad but it would not surprise me if that next relationship was ne where you weren't "rejected" as in the past. It's not the type of relationship I would strive for but one may try it as a way to "get over the hump" of getting someone to get to know them before rejecting them.
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