|
Here's one of the hardest lessons I've ever learned, and it was recently learned at that.
You say that you're in uni, so I guess that you're pretty young, mid-20s? That's too young to settle for someone who does this to you in less than one year. If she's not a cheater to you, she's at least careless with your feelings. Where was her love for you when she was cheating? I didn't read anything about a gun to her head.
Believe me, after my girl hurt me, then came back and cried and said she was sorry, I believed her. Hell, she DID feel bad, but you know what? It didn't stop her from doing it again, and I realized something. Some people are just going to be careless with your heart. It's not even that they want to or don't regret it, it's like people who trip on sidewalks all the time. Some people are just clumsy that way. Unless you think you can't ever find someone who won't do that to you, get out now.
You're not going to believe me now, but you will 6 or 7 months down the road. That was how long it took me to get it the first time.
|