There are a lot of women out there, for lack of a better term, are professional victims. They aren't happy unless there's some drama going on in their life. They like the drama because it gives them attention. (I have known way too many women like this, men too actually)
Nice guys don't have that drama, they are there, they are solid, they do the right thing, except for leaving the toilet seat up, they don't do anything wrong, so therefore, there's no drama.
As women get older, they realize that the drama gets really old, and that the nice guys are where it's at, only the nice guys have had it drummed into their heads that it's drama that's good, so they've changed their ways.... no more nice guys.
My advice to him is, don't lose who he is for a woman. Still be nice, but don't let him be taken advantage of. Not having a woman in his life is not the end of the world, and as much as I am going to sound like his mother, the right woman will come along and appreciate him for who he is.
Does he really want these women who want the bad boys. Who don't mind being treated badly? These women are not going to be around for the long haul, the sex might be ok for the time being, but I seriously doubt emotional needs will be met.
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