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I think raenna 74 and hannukah harry are right, "Daddy Ben" will only be a name for the children to call him. The "Daddy" aspect of the name probably will be linked more to the fact that he is their mother's husband and male figure in the household than any biological or deep connection to them. As long as you love them, treat them well, and continue to build a strong relationship with them you will always be Daddy. Hopefully they will have a good relationship with their stepfather but in their heart of hearts they only have one real "Daddy". BTW, I don't think you are being petty, its a natural reaction but I think there is little you can do but deal with it and be the best Dad you can be. Good luck.
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