If she has a boyfriend, then she is hands off. That being said there is nothing wrong with a casual informal coffee, but it should and most probably will go no further than that. Do not try to get her to end her relationship, only she can make that decision. Just think if she is willing to cheat on her current bf with you, what might she do if she goes out with you? Also be careful not to fall into the trap of being too good of a friend, then you will blow any chance of more than that.
In summary, keep things casual, and let her make her own decisions. Until she is back on the market, hands off!!
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