maleficent

I don't think that people ever really and truly find out who they are, because we constantly change as we get older. I am a completely different person than I was at 17, 24, 32, to what I am now (pretty damn old) All you can really do is be the best person that you can be.

Copying another person's personality traits is not necessarily a bad thing, however, it can be a little troubling in that it's an easy way out in your journey in discovering who you really are. Are they admirable traits that you are picking up?

Keep a journal (that's a blog for us old folk) write in it once a week, or even once a day if you have the time, you don't have to write anything fancy, just write about your day, and how you felt doing certain things. Did you go to the grocery store? did you talk to the cute person in line? How'd that make you feel? By recording your day, and reading thru it at the end of the month or more (don't read it daily)_ you'll start to get an idea of things that made you happy, things that annoyed you, things that made you sad, it's a start on your journey as to finding out who your are.

You're still quite young, you have a lot of discovery years ahead of you, don't rush them. Don't lose yourself in trying to be someone else. People will like you just find, and if they don't, it's their loss, not yours.

Honestly, online quizzes probably do more harm than good, those tests are generally for fun, if you took the test again in a few weeks, you will probably get different results, those tests, especially the MBTI types, are really only effective when administered by a professional, who can judge your reactions whilst giving the test.

Don't be in such a hurry to find out who you are, just enjoy getting to know the person you are becoming along the way.

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