Hmmm - that sounds pretty rough. Have you ever thought about asking her if you could join in with her and her lady friend or maybe just observe? By just reading this post I'm unable to tell if she would be the kind of girl that would be into something like that; perhaps even after a few drinks or so. Lesbians seem to be pretty liberal in general - including their sexuality. Depending on what kind of relationship you have it might be worth giving it a shot. You don't have to ask outright. Even to just plant the idea in her head in a joking manner might work to your advantage. You said you took her to a strip club already so you two must be somewhat comfortable together. I'm sure you could work it into a conversation in a manner as to not offend her but instead get her to think that it might be a good time. Good luck with with the situation in general.
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