Hey guys, thanks for all the advice. The new issue is... I can't get my wife to see any advantage in the situation. She just thinks that it is not her house, and there is some alternative motive by my parents. I've spoken with them, and they do not have anything like that, they are just looking out for their grandkids.
What can I do or say that will help persaude my wife into this? The one thing I've done is a plus minus kind of thing, and she only sees the minuses and won't even look at the pluses. I've totalled all of our bills now, and what they would be, and there's a huge difference, but she won't look at that either...
So far, we basically can't have a civil conversation about it.
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