This is really a decision you need to make on your own. It's apparently bothering you that she told you the truth and you didn't tell her the truth. This is not an 'eye for an eye' situation, as some people have made it sound.
Personally I think what you should've done in the first place was start off by telling her what happened with the diary. I'd rather be told up front than find out at a later date.
If it was me, I'd rather have you tell me now that you really found out by reading in my diary than wait longer, let me gain more trust in you, THEN find out you'd been lying all that time.
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