Break up with her. It would be one thing if you really did find out secondhand but moral righteousness is not yours to claim any longer. I had my gf read my journal a couple times and I hated her for it, as they were innocent things like dreams of other girls (sleeping dreams, not fantasies) and a mock suicide note I had written weeks before. I don't keep any kind of journal now because of her invasion of my privacy. If I were you I would've broke up with her right when I read the diary. You can't bring it up becuase your reading it was wrong but you can't ignore knowledge once you know it. Until you totally clear the air on all dishonesty, hers andyours there is no way you can get back on track. Good luck and remember thegolden rule of diary reading; if you read something you don't like you can't be pissed at the person who wrote it since you aren't supposed to be reading it anyway.
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I happen to like the words "fuck", "cock", "pussy", "tits", "cunt", "twat", "shit" and even "bitch". As long as I am not using them to describe you, don't go telling me whether or not I can/should use them...that is, if you want me to continue refraining from using them to describe you. ~Prince
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