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Okay, here is what I got out of it. You said she wrote the only reason they didn't follow through was because he couldn't get it up. That leads me to believe that she was interested in him, but in the end he couldn't fulfill her sexually, so of course she is going to want to throw him away and go back to what works (you). Obviously you know her best, but if it were me, my confidence and trust would be shattered and I wouldn't put up with that... Especially for someone who you've only been with for less than a year.
To me, eight months is long enough for two people to be respectful of each other and settle down, thus disallowing any "Accidental fooling around" or however you want to name it... Yet the relationship is not long enough nor well established enough to warrant giving her a second chance either.
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