Well, First Wives Club is a chick flick.
I have a few (hetero) male friends that enjoyed the movie too. To me, the movie is about life and how we choose to live it...and how we have to decide to be happy with the choices that we make and where our lives have gone. It isn't a fluffy movie that has a knight in shining armor coming to save a Cinderella type. I disagree but you are entitled to your own opinion.