Maybe part of it is age too. I'm at a new school this year and my three closest colleges are male. I get along fine with the woman too -- but find these friendships interesting as I've mostly been friends with woman in the past due to the whole sexual tension thing. But these guys are all cool and there is no "tension."
BTW -- "When Harry Met Sally" is one of my all time favorite movies!
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If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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