raeanna74

Hubby and I knew a girl who sounded just like that. In the end she lost her kids to social services, I got a collect call from her from the police station, etc. Even ended up with her at my door at 2:00 am with her then boyfriend in hot pursuit. He got her in a choke hold and between her and my open door. She got away and ran into a neighbor's open door. She ws trouble from the beginning but the end was very sad for her and all those who had helped her.

I would speak to your friend. Maybe even speak to her ex, asking him what his reasoning is for watching her kids. My guess is that he's got no clue what she's up to. If he quits watching the kids for her she has to stay home and cool it. Also I might suggest to your friend that when he comes over to your place he is welcome but he should not engage in any kissy face with her on your couch as you feel that he's getting himself into a dangerous situation and you feel guilty about allowing it in your home. Basically telling him he can do what he wants with his own life, just not on your turf. If he's a real friend he'll respect that. If she's a real friend she'll respect that.

Honestly she really needs to stop taking advantage of her ex. Think about it. If she's treating him this way then how's she going to treat you and your friend? She's a user. Watch your step carefully.

OH and make sure your friend is reminded to use condoms. He may end up being a child support providee if he doesn't. That's how our friend supported herself. She had 4 kids and recieved 3 support checks. Pathetic.

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