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They're all behaving like jerks. If you want to stay with the boyfriend, you have to tell him what he did wrong, if you haven't already: that he should have planned for your happiness, not his. And why that makes you mad about the rest of the relationship: is he always going to think first about himself when doing something for you? You have to get an answer to that question. If he just shucks and jives, move on.
Meanwhile, your friends aren't any prizes either. Sounds like they're "punishing" you for not putting them first, which is also bullshit. Girls are way harder on each other than guys, so now since somebody or two in the group have decided that you've betrayed them, they've decided to freeze you out instead of setling -- which is what girls do to other girls to get back at them instead of punching them out. But it's really the same thing, and much more hypocritical, because your friends never have to admit that they're doing anything. They're just "too busy." If there was one true friend among them, she'd come around and at least try to hash it out with you. So the hell with them.
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