Look man, ultimately if your friend is your friend, the dude will understand if you aren't comfortable with the whole situation. He's you're boy. That's what you're boys are for. Support. Talk to him, tell him that it’s kind of a shitty situation, and its something that you don't think is an appropriate one. That's all you have to do.
If you do decide to hang out with the whole crew, I second what le petite moi said, and just be the bigger person. Don't hold grudges. They aren't healthy. Don't get personal. Just said "What up?" and that's all you need to say.
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