Personally I would want to have no more to do with any of them. None of them have considered your feelings in this or acknowledged any wrong. If they are true friends/boyfriends then they should be able to consider your feelings. It was your b-day for goodness sake, what did any of them hope to accomplish by ruining it for you? You didn't do anything to deserve the kind of treatment they gave you. I would want to start cultivating brand new friendships.
Realistically I doubt you'll want to completely cut off your boyfriend and friendships. You could give them all another chance. Sit down with each one and seriously talk about their part in the escapade. Make sure they know that you don't blame them for all of it but just one of them being willing to step back from the "battle" over you could have completely diffused it and saved your hurt feelings. You shouldn't have to choose between any of them. Forcing you to choose is immature and selfish and they aren't worth the hassle if they still refuse to acklowedge their error.
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