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I had a stint kind of like yours with the whole sex thing. I was going from having sex any moment we could- we both still lived with our parents- to rarely having it. And this was a person who would mastrubate every night. I thought that he wasn't attracted to me, that he was cheating on me; everything in the book. It got to the point that I would cry if we were alone and he showed no interest. I finally asked him about it and he said that he was sick of starting it all the time.
And then it dawned on me. I never started sex, I just waited for him to start it or would show him my boobs. It didn't really matter, because I realized the reason I never did was because I really wasn't enjoying it, and we soon broke up.
But anyhow- you will never really know what is going on unless you ask him.
The pregnancy thing- go buy a generic test or find a planned parenthood. The generic tests may not be as accurate, but if you are on birth control, the chances of you being pregnant are pretty slim anyway, so I would probably trust the results. Besides, it will at least ease your mind until your period comes if it says no.
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