Maybe, just maybe, your lack of PDAs makes him feel like you are not proud of him. You shouldn't do anything you are uncomfortable doing. Simply holding hands, however, is a nice way to proclaim to the world: I'm with this person and I'm pleased to be with him.
Also, he may want to look into antidepresents if he is always feeling low and/or down. They certainly aren't for everyone -- but may do the trick for him.
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If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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