LostLife

First off, thanks for reading all of this if you.

I met a very wonderful and amazing woman online about a year ago. She was married, but she hasn't been with the guy for about 3 months now. Her and I have been together for about 8 months. Around a month after we got together, her computer stopped working and she wasn't ever able to get it fixed. We live about 3000 miles apart and haven't been able to see eachother in person yet, though we both deeply love eachother. Ever since her computer died, it's been few and far between when we could even talk, with maybe a weekly phone call, and a couple of letters. I thought that after she had left the guy, that maybe it would pick up and we could talk more, but it still hasn't. Before she had trouble getting away from him, and now she says that she's enjoying her new found freedom of being able to come and go as she pleases, and so she never knows when she'll be home. She also can't really call me, so I have to call her. The thing is, I can't call her. I've tried and she's never there. I finally heard from her today after not hearing from her for almost 4 weeks. I really don't know what to do, because I know she loves me, and I love her, but I can't get her to tell me a time when I could call her. She's always gone. She's not even gone to work or anything, she's just out with friends and things. I just can't handle it when it's so far inbetween talking to her. I know she loves me, but I don't understand whats going on with her.

I'm just wondering what peoples opinions are on this. I know many people here have had or are in internet relationships and such so I'm hoping somebody can talk to me. I'm really losing my mind and don't know what to do. I don't want to hurt her with anything I say, but I need to find a way to be able to talk to her more often. I just really don't know what to do.