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She's afraid to commit... you probably remind her of her abusive father/father that was never there, abusive ex-boyfriend, etc etc. Think about seriously why you're with her besides love... are you pouring all of the effort in and not getting much back? Do you like her because you're afraid that you won't find someone as good?
Put your foot down and stop letting yourself get walked on. It isn't fair to you and it teaches her that you're someone that she can walk all over. By taking her back you're saying "it is ok, this is normal... there are no consequences for jerking me around."
Nothing is worth that. Dignity needs to come before love.
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Innominate.
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