I have a Fleshlight and I'll tell you what ... that damn thing can be addicting! I use pretty hot water with it to get it good and warm since hot tap water doesn't really keep it warm long enough. Atroglide as lube is also a must with this thing and a WONDERFUL lube to boot.
I've read with interest the stories about the Aneros and would love to try it
Maybe that's what I'll put on my x-mas list this year.