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Pacing is everything. If you go too slow, things can get stuck in a rut of casualness and never get out. Try to go to too fast, and you can turn her off.
And sometimes a girl needs a nudge or gentle push to get on the dance floor in the first place. If you don't ask her to dance, she's not likely to walk over and ask you first. Very rarely do people go from hugging to kissing without someone making the first move. So I think she liked you, but never got asked onto the dance floor, and got asked by someone else. Unlike the dancing analogy, you usually don't get more than one chance, or two chances close together, to make that nudge. And the longer you wait, the less interested she gets. Next time, make the move.
Sometimes you really won't know if it's the right time or place, and then she'll surprise you with some steamy, lip-locking goodness. Speaking from recent experience, too.
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