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I feel your pain. I have had the same "i'm so busy", "I need time to work on myself", "I still love only you" excuses too many times. I used to not take the hint. Now I do. They are trying to save you the emotional trauma by letting you off easy. It never works that way. If she truly loved you and wanted to see things through with you, she would find a way to make it work.
My last girlfriend I was truly head over heals in love with. She was also going to law school. A few months of hot and heavy soon dwindles to those same excuses aforementioned. She told me that "when I do have time to date, I ONLY want to date you." Yet, she found tme on weekends to go wakeboarding with other guys on their boats, go on weekend ski trips with her girlfriends, and out almost every night of the week she wasn't studying. To top it off, we were still sleeping with each other for a few months after she broke it off...I thought I was still in her life but I wasn't. She was fucking someone else as well and wasn't being straightforward with me.
I say move on. It hurts bro, but you are better than that.
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