...so I've known the gf for a few years now.....and back in univeristy she was pretty wild and in good shape.....but now with normal eeating patterns and no more binge drinking....she's put on a few pounds and has lost alot of her sex drive (from what I can tell) 2 parts:
-how can I tell her I'm unhappy with her weight gain, she has a gym membership and I'm always telling her to make more use of it, but nothing ever happens
-how can I get her libido going again...I think a big part (or at least she tells me)....is that she is unhappy with her body, and doesn't want to get naked in front of me?? (....well I say if she is that unhappy than really make the effort to lose weight...otherwise I'm insulted that she won't have sex yet won't go to the gym either!)
help please!
