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I would ask if they are used and (been there, done that) use the ones that haven't been to man's ex gf's cavities. Leather restraints, whips and such, sure. If things weren't discussed before, I'd be a bit suprised if he just gave a Large box full of stuff. I prefer men who are open and mature enough to open their mouth and not just point at a dildo. I've been with a man who couldn't say he wants his anus licked. He always just said "lower" when I was giving him a blowjob. The best way of minimising stress and getting it right is communication. The next thing is to be intressed in what SHE wants. I assume a man will ask me when we are on a date what I want in bed, I tell him, he tells me what he likes, yadayada. A man that just wants me to get a show on for him is a drok and a turnoff. Usually first time sex is adventure to unknow without hassling with more spesific preferences or fetishes. Toys come into play to spice up things after the honeymoon-fucking-frenzy is over.
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