Mephex

This one is for the ladies.

You and your guy just got back to his place after a fantastic night, and you want him like nothing else.

You start playing around, things get extremely hot. He reaches into the closet and pulls out a large box, opens it, and starts laying out various toys. Dongs, vibrators, strap ons, beads, wands etc.

It's clear what the intent is, how do you react ?

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Halx

I can see the start of a 'choose your own adventure' sexual roleplaying forum...

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Mephex

What a fantastic idea! I'd be all over that.

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SabrinaFair

I'm all about masturbating in front of a potential lover...(one partner described it as "the coolest thing he had ever seen) but I'd have to ask if anyone else had used it, or else put a condom on it, because ew.

Although I guess I could use on on him...that'd be fun...

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*edited becuase I went back and re-read the question *

Since I'm with Secret now and have been for four years, I'm pretty sure they would be clean, so I wouldn't have to ask where they'd been.

I'd be pretty darn excited and happy if he surprised me with something like that. And then as I said earlier, I would use them myself and then have him use them on me, a little combination of both.

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suviko

I would ask if they are used and (been there, done that) use the ones that haven't been to man's ex gf's cavities. Leather restraints, whips and such, sure. If things weren't discussed before, I'd be a bit suprised if he just gave a Large box full of stuff. I prefer men who are open and mature enough to open their mouth and not just point at a dildo. I've been with a man who couldn't say he wants his anus licked. He always just said "lower" when I was giving him a blowjob. The best way of minimising stress and getting it right is communication. The next thing is to be intressed in what SHE wants. I assume a man will ask me when we are on a date what I want in bed, I tell him, he tells me what he likes, yadayada. A man that just wants me to get a show on for him is a drok and a turnoff. Usually first time sex is adventure to unknow without hassling with more spesific preferences or fetishes. Toys come into play to spice up things after the honeymoon-fucking-frenzy is over.

Dilbert1234567

i would think that it would be common sense to clean any of your personal toys befor offering them to some one else. your last option seems like this is not the case for everyone.


thoughts?

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Mephex

That's what I was thinking too, but I guess just the thought grosses'em out. Which leads me to wonder, how can women have sex with a man who has been with other women ?

It really doesn't add up, but maybe I'm not seeing the whole picture.

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suviko

Usually people don't get too exited with being offered used stuff. Can you spell "c h e a p"...
You wouldn't want to wear your gf's ex boyfriend's boxers either?

Also, it's not yet the any-other-person-been-using-them fact but *EX*! People react to ex relationships in varying ways, but it's not the same as any person in this universe.

In the poll there were only 3 votes in the "gross" when three girls had replied to the thread. So how many men voted there after us?

raeanna74

I'd be happy to let him start out but I'm sure I'd want to try my "hand" at it too and pick one I know I'd want to play with. If he was laying them out I'd assume he'd planned something in particular but once he'd had his fun - or at least some of it I know I'd want to take a more active role.

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Rowan

If I had a guy that was adventurous enough to offer me presents of pleasure, I would be excited. . .I would definitely let him use them on me.

But yes they would have to be brand new.

Mephex

I am this guy, and if you'd like to set up a date and time, pm me.

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suviko

No, make no mistake: she said "have to be brand new". You are this guy with box full of your ex gfs sex toys in your car's trunk. Why did you insist on getting the dildos back in the firstplace? :I

iamnormal

Why do you think they make those little counter top dish washers but to use to keep your sex toys clean and sanitary.

Mephex

Damn Suvi, what'd you have to go and do that for ?

Bust me out at any opportunity I bet.

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Mephex

And another thing:

First off, a lot of them are brand new, secondly, do you really think that after I moved out, and continued to pay rent for
the fucking bitch so she could have her fun with her new guys, that I would assist in that pleasure one fucking bit ? No.

I took back as much as I could, realizing that I've spent the last 3 years of my life playing caretaker, making sure she was happy, so that she could end things by finding some married jagoff on the internet to give her affection to.

Fuck that. So I threw away the old ones. They were too big for me anyway.

Thank you, please drive through.

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suviko

>Fuck that. So I threw away the old ones. They were too big for
>me anyway.


That changes everything. If I knew (or the man said so) the offered toys are new, I'd dive into the box and get what I need.

Mephex

Sooo, without further adue.

I am this guy, and if you'd like to set up a date and time, pm me.

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suviko

Well, now you gotta list what you got in the box.

Mephex

Here's a few of'em:

Topco E-Glass Adam & Eve Pure Pleasure


Doc Johnson iVibe Rabbit


Doc Johnson Ultra Harness 8" Dong


Cyber Jelly Plug


Crystal Butt Plug


Hitachi Magic Wand ( With attachments )


Pink Lady Fleshlight


And a whole lot of other things I couldn't find images for. Most of them are things I bought but haven't gotten to use yet

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soopadoopa

Damn, cuz!!! All that looks like an investment. what about the rabbit? Is it all it's cracked up to be? My wife thinks she wants one.

Mephex

Well, some say don't get it or you'll be sorry. I say get it, but keep it somewhere where only you have access to

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