You sound like you are already on the right track. If you take it slow enough, show enough love, she'll probably know when she's ready for it and so will you. Just showing that you care about her feelings will make it a better experience for her. Also like skysooner said - talk to her about it. Talk a lot. Women tend to work through their feelings of anxiety a little better when they've talked it all out first.
Also if she's interested, you could suggest that when it comes down to penetration you could allow her to get on top. It will help her not be afraid of things being to uncomfortable because she will be more in control and able to stop if anything hurts. Just reassure her all the way. I wish you both the best.
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