To tell the truth, I was never really in tune with the idea of searching for increasing the intensity of my orgasm of sexual stamina until my last/current. With her having all the neat toys of vaginal and anal stimulation, I said what they heck, why not. We have built a relationship on trust, love and respect..and that helps me to want to explore my sexuality. We have very few taboos...And as a result, the shame factor has also been eliminated. Now me wearing that leather cock ring behind my ball with another rubberized one attached to it, is a sign for her to go to town on him. Sometime we mutually use vibrating devices, because they are fun, get us even more in tune with our urges, and away we go.
all of this I would over never have done with any of my past partners or ex wife.. It boils down to a good partner, being open minded, understanding and wanting to explore the deeper meaning of sex...at least for us.
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LEATHER, LATEX and LACE "SSC"
"Nothing That Gives Pleasure is Bad"
Quality is for those who know
what they want and are at peace with what they have.
"S/M is about emotion; the erotic tension between my impulse toward something and my resistance against it."-- Virginia Barker
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