Hedgehog

Folks, I am in a long-distance relationship, and I am going to visit her soon and stay with her for a couple of weeks.

My girlfriend has very little sexual experience, though she is in her late 20s. Her last boyfriend was her only experience (another long distance thing), and from what info I can gather, he basically just jumped her bones and banged away with little or no regard for her feelings, then had the nerve to criticize her performance afterward. Then he dumped her.

This has left her quite worried about us and how our experience will be. She found penetration with her ex to be quite painful.

I'm currently going by the theory that she wasn't aroused or lubricated when this jerk started banging away at her, and this is probably the cause of the pain she felt before. But I need reassurance on this point. Can you folks help me out here?

I am a slow lover, and I love foreplay, including cunnilingus and the works before penetration. I plan on having some lube on hand too. Basically, I want to give her the best feeling she's ever had so she'll forget all about the bad previous experience. She's likely to be scared when we start out.

Any advice?

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