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tim2shady · 04-08-2004, 12:15 PM

anyone with SO's who have a child (ren) and you have a child (ren) would help me the most...I think.

my SO and I live together (7 mos now) her son is 6, mine is almost 3, when both of them are together, usually every other weekend (and yes I wish I had my son more!!). both are extremely jealous of each other and my SO's son starts calling my daddy when my son does. Also, he is beginning to call me daddy more and more.

Here's my dilemna (sp?)....how do I deel with my SO's son calling me daddy? BTW, his biological farther has never been around and his G-pa has been much more of a farther than anyone else in his life until me. I'm worried about the what if's....what if me and my SO don't work out (we are and we don't have any issues now). what if biological dad comes into the picture one day...what if what if what if

Also, any thoughts on curing the jealousy issues???

thanks to all who have serious input....looking for some insight here to help me make the best decision(s) for all of us.

04-08-2004, 12:15 PM	#1 (permalink)
tim2shady Tilted Location: Chicago, IL	my son and her son anyone with SO's who have a child (ren) and you have a child (ren) would help me the most...I think. my SO and I live together (7 mos now) her son is 6, mine is almost 3, when both of them are together, usually every other weekend (and yes I wish I had my son more!!). both are extremely jealous of each other and my SO's son starts calling my daddy when my son does. Also, he is beginning to call me daddy more and more. Here's my dilemna (sp?)....how do I deel with my SO's son calling me daddy? BTW, his biological farther has never been around and his G-pa has been much more of a farther than anyone else in his life until me. I'm worried about the what if's....what if me and my SO don't work out (we are and we don't have any issues now). what if biological dad comes into the picture one day...what if what if what if Also, any thoughts on curing the jealousy issues??? thanks to all who have serious input....looking for some insight here to help me make the best decision(s) for all of us. __________________ mean people suck.....period.