Curious if you've seen anyone since she left or hadn't really pursued anyone due to stil having strong feelings for her? My suggestion would be to let it go and move on. Coming to you saying she still loves you, but I also still loves the guy she's with and that she has no plans to end that relationship seems to me more of a mind game to keep you at arms reach when it doesnt work out because you're safe so to speak.
Don't get me wrong, you should be there for her but as a friend. If she keeps on with the "I still love you.." stuff, myself i'd have to say something about it and if she continued then really i'd have to go my seperate way after awhile. Makes it hard for you to move on and in the end could end the friendship.
Who knows down the road you guys may hook back up if it's meant to be, but i'd suggest time for you to clear your head of her. Different experiences & relationships you have throughout life only help you to bring more to the table and make it that much better when you do finally find the right one.
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