I think you should quit living in your head about this one. Let me see if I got this straight.
1. girl liked you
2. you ignored girl
3. girl kept liking you
4. you liked girl but didn't express this to her because you couldn't think of a good way to do it
5. girl avoids you
6. you continue to avoid girl
At no point in this chain of events have you ever taken steps to make your feelings known. Sounds like fear, plain and simple. Just talk to her! Smile at her! Let her know you are aware of her existence and it pleases you! Quit playing so cool trying to be the one who doesn't get hurt or look dumb. You'll succeed, but you'll leave a trail of royally pissed off, ignored, confused women in your wake, and meantime you'll be safe but lonely. Take a chance. Walk up to her and ask her to go get coffee, or go to a movie or something. Chances are all the signals you're reading as avoidance are her feeling rejected and confused. If she shoots you down, at least you know where you stand. If she accepts your invitation, GREAT! She likes you enough to be seen in public with you and share an experience. Don't think about it, just TALK TO HER.
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"If ten million people believe a foolish thing, it is still a foolish thing."
- Anatole France
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