I agree with Prince.
I'm also not even too bothered by 14 year olds giving each other hand jobs (or BJ's).
I guess I should qualify that with I'm less bothered by that than if the girl had, say, been caught giving a BJ to the bus driver!
Anyway, I don't think teenage sex is anything that's new to our society or part of social morays degenerating. I thought that was a pretty common age to start playing around--the shocking part, to me, is that the average age is dropping to middle school and below!
But I digress, the "counseling" I suggest is sex education. Other than that, a bit of common sense from the family as to the dangers lurking on-line. Short of not knowing safe sex or hex, teenage nudie banter isn't blowing my sensibilities apart for some reason.
All that said (as if anyone's even reading this anymore
), I think the prosecutor is using this as a scare and/or legal tactic to seize her property and track down the oglers.