I agree with you- to me being able to have a baby is an important thing. But when I think of would would happen should I not be able to concieve... I begin to look at the big picture. Raising a child is what it is truly about. Loving them and taking care of them is whats important- not just the fact of giving birth to them. I am sorry to hear what you had to go through as a kid. Good luck and i hope this works out the way you want it to.
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